We're all "seeing it" these days - that's a good thing. No see - no like - no hope!!
What I learned over the long painful spring and summer was this: (a) arrive at the Serenity Prayer all over again (b) highly compartmentalize my thinking and reactions - so - split apart (i) program (ii) coach (iii) players (iv) league (v) D1 ranking - and evaluate and enjoy each of these in SEPARATE compartments and finally (c) avoid letting my confirmed judgments in one of the these buckets from poisoning my judgments in any of the other buckets.
This means that I can love the players, root for the team performance no matter what, be thankful for Seton Hall, but despise the coach as incompetent while yet caring for him as a decent human being, and in general still love the program.
That's it in a nutshell.
How do YOU see it?
What I learned over the long painful spring and summer was this: (a) arrive at the Serenity Prayer all over again (b) highly compartmentalize my thinking and reactions - so - split apart (i) program (ii) coach (iii) players (iv) league (v) D1 ranking - and evaluate and enjoy each of these in SEPARATE compartments and finally (c) avoid letting my confirmed judgments in one of the these buckets from poisoning my judgments in any of the other buckets.
This means that I can love the players, root for the team performance no matter what, be thankful for Seton Hall, but despise the coach as incompetent while yet caring for him as a decent human being, and in general still love the program.
That's it in a nutshell.
How do YOU see it?