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Originally posted by Old_alum:





Originally posted by SnakeTom:
OK in your view gays are sinners. But I don't understand why you want to impose your religious views upon others who do not share them. And I still do not understand how gays being allowed to get married affects your life negatively. No one is forcing you to partake in a same sex marriage or in the celebration of one. Live and let live. And yes I do think that living a good life and being a good person is more important than following a set of religious rules developed centuries ago.

TK








Originally posted by Old_alum:


Tom

I confess I am confused. One of three things must be true:
1. You did not read what I wrote;
2. You choose to ignore what I wrote as irrelevant; or,
3. You do not understand what I wrote.

I shall assume it is #3 until you correct me.

A. Please answer whether it is okay to ignore the feelings of the survivors of 9-11 who oppose the construction of a mosque on ground zero.
B. Please answer whether it is okay to ignore the feelings of the survivors of deceased people who were buried in city cemeteries over the last 300 years under the hypothetical that the cities can generate significant economic value from converting said cemeteries to strip malls and parking lots.
C. Please tell me whether 'precedent' is ignored or honored in the American system of jurisprudence.
D. Are American copyright laws irrelevant?
E. Are American laws on lewd conduct irrelevant?
F. Why do the feelings of a group representing 1% of the population over what you say is a mere semantical difference trump the feelings of 30%-60% of the population which feel a sacred word would be violated, religious people who have demonstrated their willingness to suffer imprisonment and death over sacred words?
G. Why should the 'precedent' set consistently by the governments and religions of every single country in the world over 3,900 of the last 3,920 years be sloughed off like yesterday's NY Post?


Then I shall be most pleased if not eager to address your questions above.
Thanks!






Originally posted by SnakeTom:





You don't answer my questions about how it negatively affects your life (it doesn't) or why you constantly try to impose your religious views upon others but rather you post a series of totally irrelevant questions to the issue tryng to change the focus of the discussion. Yes I see it as a civil rights issue & as one of basic fairness. But then again our disagreement on this topic duoesn't surprise me as we rarely agree on anything.

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Aha! So it is reason #2 BECAUSE of #3. I wish you had just stated that originally.



Well then, let me try to connect the dots for you.



1. I started by saying that redefining Marriage was not fair or just on its own merits.



2. You said that economics trumps semantics.



3. I said I had posited ALL economic parity (insurance, pensions, tax, estate, etc) but saw no need to redefine a word consistently used by governments and religions in only one way for 3,900 years.



4. You said the state has the power to define a word anyway it wants.



5. I never disagreed with that state power, but said that just having the power did not make its exercise right in all cases. I cited the Legislature of Indiana defining Pi as 3.2. Legal, but stupid and unfair.



6. You said that using the word Civil Union would make homosexual couples feel different.



7. I said that the state may call ALL of these sanctioned social contracts Civil Unions so they would not be different.



8. You then asked how the mere semantics of the word marriage 'negatively affects your (ed: my) life'.



9. I explained that the word was a Catholic sacrament, instituted by Jesus Christ, Himself, and that it would be a sacrilege for its antithetical use to be sanctioned by the government.



10. You then said this did not 'harm' me and 'should' be of no interest to me.



11. Since the term 'sacred' did not seem to resonate its import to you, I then cited a handful of examples in which one group of citizens rights (feelings) were protected when a second group tried to voice its rights on something important to the first group. Legally, I cited both copyright law and laws on lewd conduct. Socially, I cited 9-11, respect for cemeteries, the 'N' word, commercial exploitation ('Holy Eucharist Bread Sticks'), and others. I cited the importance of 'legal precedent' in American jurisprudence, and gave long lived examples of the precedent in this case.



12. You unilaterally declare these to be 'totally irrelevant questions' with absolutely no explanation whatsoever of how you justify such an opinion.



So, once again, I present my social analogs for how this word change 'negatively affects (my) life' and my legal precedents on why I 'see it as a civil rights issue & as one of basic fairness' and would hurt the feelings of 30-60 times as many US citizens'.



Here is the list from above. Please explain to me why each one is irrelevant. Also, please explain why you feel justified in calling these defenses those of a 'bigot'. Then please cite reasons and precedent on why you 'see it as a civil rights issue & as one of basic fairness'.A. Please answer whether it is okay to ignore the feelings of the survivors of 9-11 who oppose the construction of a mosque on ground zero.
B. Please answer whether it is okay to ignore the feelings of the survivors of deceased people who were buried in city cemeteries over the last 300 years under the hypothetical that the cities can generate significant economic value from converting said cemeteries to strip malls and parking lots.
C. Please tell me whether 'precedent' is ignored or honored in the American system of jurisprudence.
D. Are American copyright laws irrelevant?
E. Are American laws on lewd conduct irrelevant?
F. Why do the feelings of a group representing 1% of the population over what you say is a mere semantical difference trump the feelings of 30%-60% of the population which feel a sacred word would be violated, religious people who have demonstrated their willingness to suffer imprisonment and death over sacred words?
G. Why should the 'precedent' set consistently by the governments and religions of every single country in the world over 3,900 of the last 3,920 years be sloughed off like yesterday's NY Post?


Now to your new post:




You blatantly charge that I ''constantly try to impose your (ed: my) religious views upon others''. Such a charge is outrageous and unmerited! Please cite even one instance, one direct quote from me, in which I have done this. One direct quote from me in any thread of the last 20 years I have been posting on this board or any of the predecessor boards you have graciously organized. This comment is totally uncalled for, unfair and so beneath you.


Are you construing my right to defend my Constitutionally guaranteed right --- to worship in the way I choose --- against Obama's unconstitutional attack's on this basic liberty as my 'imposing (my) religious views on others'?

I have never once tried to impose my religious views on ANYONE. I have acquiesced to you for all of the homosexual people in country to get all of the economic and civil-contract privileges which any government deems to be fit. I have made no judgment on anyone for following his/her own conscience in any way. I even acquiesced to others choosing bestiality if they are so inclined. I shall not support nor laud it, but it is a free country.

What I do 'see...as a civil rights issue &...one of basic fairness' for me and for100-million other Americans is the defense of OUR feelings, of OUR rights to justice, of OUR 3,900 year-old legally precedented protection, similar to the copyright and lewd conduct laws of the US. I ask you: why do you disparage the rights of Christians when you rally to defend these same rights for others?
This post was edited on 6/4 11:51 AM by Old_alum
 
Originally posted by SnakeTom:
OK in your view gays are sinners. But I don't understand why you want to impose your religious views upon others who do not share them. And I still do not understand how gays being allowed to get married affects your life negatively. No one is forcing you to partake in a same sex marriage or in the celebration of one. Live and let live. And yes I do think that living a good life and being a good person is more important than following a set of religious rules developed centuries ago.

TK
If you are religious, which you are not, you would understand. Calling it marriage is a farce, and further marginalizes the Church. As to being a "good person," how do you know what good is? Greek philosophers talked a lot about "the good," and an objective right and wrong. Like it or not, what you think is living a good life is based in Greek philosophy and the ten commandments. Each person doesn't get to decide what is good or not; it either is or it isn't -- otherwise, there would be no society.
 
If nothing else homosexual unions sanctioned or not by the state, or religious entities is a biological dead end.Sodomy was forbidden by the Biblefor thousands of years ago.Does morality change with the passage of time?has ethics taken it's place?

,
 
Originally posted by Torino1:
If nothing else homosexual unions sanctioned or not by the state, or religious entities is a biological dead end.Sodomy was forbidden by the Biblefor thousands of years ago.Does morality change with the passage of time?has ethics taken it's place?

,
And slavery existed for thousands of years also. Does that make it right.

TK
 
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Originally posted by donnie_baseball:

Originally posted by SnakeTom:
OK in your view gays are sinners. But I don't understand why you want to impose your religious views upon others who do not share them. And I still do not understand how gays being allowed to get married affects your life negatively. No one is forcing you to partake in a same sex marriage or in the celebration of one. Live and let live. And yes I do think that living a good life and being a good person is more important than following a set of religious rules developed centuries ago.

TK
If you are religious, which you are not, you would understand. Calling it marriage is a farce, and further marginalizes the Church. As to being a "good person," how do you know what good is? Greek philosophers talked a lot about "the good," and an objective right and wrong. Like it or not, what you think is living a good life is based in Greek philosophy and the ten commandments. Each person doesn't get to decide what is good or not; it either is or it isn't -- otherwise, there would be no society.
Sorry but you don't have to be religious to know right from wrong. If you have to read a book to figure that out I think you have a problem.

TK
 
Originally posted by Torino1:
If nothing else homosexual unions sanctioned or not by the state, or religious entities is a biological dead end.Sodomy was forbidden by the Biblefor thousands of years ago.Does morality change with the passage of time?has ethics taken it's place?

,
Infertile heterosexual couples are also biological dead ends. Should they not be allowed to get married?
 
Originally posted by Pirate6711:


Originally posted by Torino1:
If nothing else homosexual unions sanctioned or not by the state, or religious entities is a biological dead end.Sodomy was forbidden by the Biblefor thousands of years ago.Does morality change with the passage of time?has ethics taken it's place?

,
Infertile heterosexual couples are also biological dead ends. Should they not be allowed to get married?
There was an entire thread which dealt with this.

The biological, sociological, psychological, philosophical and religiious histories attest to the integral symmetry of form, function and purpose of the male and female union. These all point to procreation. These all further attest that the rules are a function of the universal, not the specific. That said, no science is absolute (see Newton, Einstein and Heisenberg), and it is the exception which proves the rule. And just for the record, infertility is grounds for annulment in the Church.





Edit: the proper sentence is that 'impotence' is grounds for annulment, not 'infertility'. Sorry for any confusion.
This post was edited on 6/11 3:07 PM by Old_alum
 
Originally posted by SnakeTom:

Originally posted by Torino1:
If nothing else homosexual unions sanctioned or not by the state, or religious entities is a biological dead end.Sodomy was forbidden by the Biblefor thousands of years ago.Does morality change with the passage of time?has ethics taken it's place?

,
And slavery existed for thousands of years also. Does that make it right.

TK
Another non sequitur.

Since when is slavery biological?
 
Snake,

Slavery is still very popular today with countless people,living in bondage in all parts of the world.I don't see the analogy.
 
Originally posted by Torino1:
Snake,

Slavery is still very popular today with countless people,living in bondage in all parts of the world.I don't see the analogy.
'Slavery is very popular today" ? With who ? Certainly not the slaves! Are you saying that slavery is right because it has been done for thousands of years. Because that's what you said about the definition of marriage.

TK
 
Originally posted by SnakeTom:

Originally posted by Torino1:
Snake,

Slavery is still very popular today with countless people,living in bondage in all parts of the world.I don't see the analogy.
'Slavery is very popular today" ? With who ? Certainly not the slaves! Are you saying that slavery is right because it has been done for thousands of years. Because that's what you said about the definition of marriage.

TK
That is not at all what Torino said in his initial post.

As a matter of fact, he did not even mention 'marriage' per se.

When I get back to a computer I shall try to elaborate more effectively on this .


This post was edited on 6/5 12:38 AM by Old_alum
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:


Originally posted by SnakeTom:


Originally posted by Torino1:
Snake,

Slavery is still very popular today with countless people,living in bondage in all parts of the world.I don't see the analogy.
'Slavery is very popular today" ? With who ? Certainly not the slaves! Are you saying that slavery is right because it has been done for thousands of years. Because that's what you said about the definition of marriage.

TK
That is not at all what Torino said in his initial post.

As a matter of fact, he did not even mention 'marriage' per se.

When I get back to a computer I shall try to elaborate more effectively on this .

This post was edited on 6/5 12:38 AM by Old_alum
First, Torino's initial post had four primary points, none of which was based on the 'thousands of years':
1. Biology shows homosexual unions are dysfunctional.
2. The Church---through the bible---has taught that homosexual unions are immoral.
3. These are truths, and the truth is neither subjective nor changeable.
4. Today the relativists seem to try and substitute 'ethics' for 'morality'.

None of these are addressed by Tom's non sequitur.
 
Originally posted by SnakeTom:


Originally posted by donnie_baseball:


Originally posted by SnakeTom:
OK in your view gays are sinners. But I don't understand why you want to impose your religious views upon others who do not share them. And I still do not understand how gays being allowed to get married affects your life negatively. No one is forcing you to partake in a same sex marriage or in the celebration of one. Live and let live. And yes I do think that living a good life and being a good person is more important than following a set of religious rules developed centuries ago.

TK
If you are religious, which you are not, you would understand. Calling it marriage is a farce, and further marginalizes the Church. As to being a "good person," how do you know what good is? Greek philosophers talked a lot about "the good," and an objective right and wrong. Like it or not, what you think is living a good life is based in Greek philosophy and the ten commandments. Each person doesn't get to decide what is good or not; it either is or it isn't -- otherwise, there would be no society.
Sorry but you don't have to be religious to know right from wrong. If you have to read a book to figure that out I think you have a problem.

TK
No one has said anything about the Moral Compass which God placed in every heart.

While Donnie did mention the social hollowness of the individual's subjective determinations, his primary point was obviously the deleterious impact on 'society' when its members deny an absolute truth.

If there is no Law Giver then there can be no absolute truth.
If there is no absolute truth then there can be no non-subjective right and wrong, no good or evil.
If there is no non-subjective right and wrong, then societies have always devolved into 'might makes right'.
It is when 'might makes right' that slavery has always flourished (as Torino tried to point out above, as well).

Tom, can you name a single non-Christian society which voluntarily out-lawed slavery? I cannot.

Chesterton cautioned that before anyone moves a fence, he must be determined to understand why the fence was put there in the first place.

Relativists are sure trying to destroy a lot of historically beneficial fences.



Tom, we still await your justification of your 'irrelevant' protestations to my post above.
 
Annulment, LOL!!! Another crazy idea, let's pretend it never happened.

What's next, you going to tell me that one can go to church on a Saturday night, say a few hail mary's and be absolved of all you did wrong? That would be crazy as well, LOL!

Old Aluminum, I do respect you though for being a true catholic/christian. Way too many say they are but then pick and choose. Just don't lecture us because we don't all think the same.
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Originally posted by SPK145:
Annulment, LOL!!! Another crazy idea, let's pretend it never happened.

What's next, you going to tell me that one can go to church on a Saturday night, say a few hail mary's and be absolved of all you did wrong? That would be crazy as well, LOL!

Old Aluminum, I do respect you though for being a true catholic/christian. Way too many say they are but then pick and choose. Just don't lecture us because we don't all think the same.
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He's not lecturing anyone, he is defending himself and his faith. People have come at him with questions, and he's answered them exceedingly well, consistent with the theology. Most non-Catholics just take pot-shots at the faithful, and ask questions they believe can't be answered, or scoff when the answer is presented them. Old_alum is a pretty patient guy, he should just refer the obtuse to the works of Aquinas, or Plato, and be done with them.

To answer your question, you can be absolved of all you did wrong for the asking, as Catholics believe through the sacrament of confession. My priest never assigns Hail Marys, but that is variable.
 
"Lecture" was the wrong word, should be "legislate."

Donnie, I do respect you too for your true adherence to your religion/faith.



Don't take my shit and don't hurt me; leave the rest alone.
 
Thank you, and likewise, I respect you as a pragmatist and libertarian view. Much less intrusive, all the way around. Much more like the founding fathers than most who argue about religious freedom claim.
This post was edited on 6/5 1:55 PM by donnie_baseball
 
Originally posted by donnie_baseball:



Originally posted by SPK145:
Old Aluminum,... just don't lecture us because we don't all think the same.
He's not lecturing anyone, he is defending himself and his faith.





Originally posted by SPK145:
"Lecture" was the wrong word, should be "legislate."
Legislate? No way!
Lecture? . . Closer!
Bore? . . . . Getting warm!
Hector? . . Too strident, even for me!
Fillip! . . . . That's about as close as I can get it!

Now in terms of "thinking the same", I guess you're right. I try to be logical! LOL




This post was edited on 6/5 4:16 PM by Old_alum
 
Originally posted by SPK145:
Annulment, LOL!!! Another crazy idea, let's pretend it never happened.

What's next, you going to tell me that one can go to church on a Saturday night, say a few hail mary's and be absolved of all you did wrong? That would be crazy as well, LOL!
Crazy? Not really.

Covenantial! There you go!

That's the trouble with 'contracts', there so .... binding!

If you refer back to the Catholic Church view which sees procreation as integral to marriage, then the inability to have kids 'should' be a legal 'loop hole'!

But it is not really a loop hole. The modern Church carries a heavy burden---balancing the immortal souls of the world and the immutable truth of the Paraclete. But since the latter is the just those two things --- immutable and the truth ---- it is a 'no brainer'. Not in the sense that the hedonists would like, but in the sense that no matter what any individual's brain 'thinks', the 'rules is the rules'! The Guy who gave them to us is not into freelancing (just forgiving --- especially on Saturdays!)..

Sorry! Got carried away
This post was edited on 6/6 4:56 PM by Old_alum
 
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