The mistake you are making is narrowing this down to the choice of just one or a few people. Football is, by far, the larger draw. We know this. That’s how The Big East got into it’s current, and ongoing, situation.
More people are going to be contributing to that football team. Overall, it’s not going to be even close. There’s no two ways about it. Short of contributing a hundred thousand dollars, the inclination of just one or a few people are not going to make a difference in that equation. They fill that football stadium. Let’s not kid ourselves, that’s where the bulk of donor and NIL is going to - the football program.
The same would be true with Seton Hall if we had a long running football program. Most of the donor and NIL money would be going there. It would most certainly be the main priority if, indeed, we had an established football program. So it doesn’t matter what you or my personal choice would be on where to give our personal money.
Now, back to my original point. If the vast majority of the money is going to football, and they can still afford two of the top three recruits in basketball, then they really have no excuse to have such a thoroughly mediocre football program that can’t take the next step. They may not exactly be a doormat in conference football anymore, but they’re not much better off. My conclusion: they just have a really poor football program that is eating up New Jersey tax payer money.
That’s just my two cents.