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Originally posted by Torino1:
IMHO' it's natures way to control human overpopulation.Without it maybe we could number several billions more and growing exponentially.
I guess you could make that argument; I don't know what the rate of homosexuals:heterosexuals is, maybe 1:500?
Many same sex couples are using scientific methods to bear children, anyway. The outcomes surrounding children raised without a father or mother (but with two "parents") will be interesting over the next century.
 
Originally posted by donnie_baseball:

Originally posted by Torino1:
IMHO' it's natures way to control human overpopulation.Without it maybe we could number several billions more and growing exponentially.
I guess you could make that argument; I don't know what the rate of homosexuals:heterosexuals is, maybe 1:500?
Many same sex couples are using scientific methods to bear children, anyway. The outcomes surrounding children raised without a father or mother (but with two "parents") will be interesting over the next century.
I think that is a grossly understated estimate.

http://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/what-percent-of-the-population-is-gay-more-than-you-think-5012467/
 
Originally posted by Merge:


Originally posted by donnie_baseball:


Originally posted by Torino1:
IMHO' it's natures way to control human overpopulation.Without it maybe we could number several billions more and growing exponentially.
I guess you could make that argument; I don't know what the rate of homosexuals:heterosexuals is, maybe 1:500?
Many same sex couples are using scientific methods to bear children, anyway. The outcomes surrounding children raised without a father or mother (but with two "parents") will be interesting over the next century.
I think that is a grossly understated estimate.

http://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/what-percent-of-the-population-is-gay-more-than-you-think-5012467/
FWIW I suspect the original poster might have had his tongue in his cheek.
 
Bi Sexual is a funny thing. Why do people think either youre gay or your not? IMO its a spectrum. I dont think there is a 100% gay person or a 100% straight person. I think society has rooted the idea into our brain that anything but 100% straight is a bad thing. Take a step back does it really matter? Was I born with some homosexual tendencies? Maybe, but I've been conditioned to not even think about. IMO gay men that swear that theyll never love, or kiss another girl are nonsense. Just my view. Sometimes men like men and girls like girls, like its been stated before I think the earth isnt going to have a shortage of people anytime soon because of this. I will marry a girl and have children, and the majority will go this route, but it really doesnt matter if you dont.





Also, being gay doesnt mean you cant have children. I think gays make perfect parents that can use a surrogate mother or adopt from the straight couples who didnt understand the consequences of their actions.

Every species on earth was made to procreate right? Isnt that a hot subject on why we shouldnt be gay and why its wrong? Well ask yourselves this... Why are we the only species to limit ourselves to one partner? Obviously family has benefits for survival etc, but if the goal is procreation marriage seems like its limiting that as well. But personally I think we are past the point of needing to spread our seed.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Bi Sexual is a funny thing. Why do people think either youre gay or your not? IMO its a spectrum. I dont think there is a 100% gay person or a 100% straight person. I think society has rooted the idea into our brain that anything but 100% straight is a bad thing. Take a step back does it really matter? Was I born with some homosexual tendencies? Maybe, but I've been conditioned to not even think about. IMO gay men that swear that theyll never love, or kiss another girl are nonsense. Just my view. Sometimes men like men and girls like girls, like its been stated before I think the earth isnt going to have a shortage of people anytime soon because of this. I will marry a girl and have children, and the majority will go this route, but it really doesnt matter if you dont.





Also, being gay doesnt mean you cant have children. I think gays make perfect parents that can use a surrogate mother or adopt from the straight couples who didnt understand the consequences of their actions.

Every species on earth was made to procreate right? Isnt that a hot subject on why we shouldnt be gay and why its wrong? Well ask yourselves this... Why are we the only species to limit ourselves to one partner? Obviously family has benefits for survival etc, but if the goal is procreation marriage seems like its limiting that as well. But personally I think we are past the point of needing to spread our seed.
Your quote "I think gays make perfect parents". I hope that you aren't suggesting that just because a couple is gay that means they will be great parents. Being gay doesn't automatically make you anything else besides gay.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Bi Sexual is a funny thing. Why do people think either youre gay or your not? IMO its a spectrum. I dont think there is a 100% gay person or a 100% straight person. I think society has rooted the idea into our brain that anything but 100% straight is a bad thing. Take a step back does it really matter? Was I born with some homosexual tendencies? Maybe, but I've been conditioned to not even think about. IMO gay men that swear that theyll never love, or kiss another girl are nonsense. Just my view. Sometimes men like men and girls like girls, like its been stated before I think the earth isnt going to have a shortage of people anytime soon because of this. I will marry a girl and have children, and the majority will go this route, but it really doesnt matter if you dont.





Also, being gay doesnt mean you cant have children. I think gays make perfect parents that can use a surrogate mother or adopt from the straight couples who didnt understand the consequences of their actions.

Every species on earth was made to procreate right? Isnt that a hot subject on why we shouldnt be gay and why its wrong? Well ask yourselves this... Why are we the only species to limit ourselves to one partner? Obviously family has benefits for survival etc, but if the goal is procreation marriage seems like its limiting that as well. But personally I think we are past the point of needing to spread our seed.
According to the extensive research I've compiled over the years, I've come to the conclusion that gays cannot, in fact, have children.
 
Originally posted by Ai2Ai:

According to the extensive research I've compiled over the years, I've come to the conclusion that gays cannot, in fact, have children.
Gay couples just like some straight couples can use IVF, surrogates and adoption.
 
Gay Straight Bi Transgender who gives a shit, why do we care what others do so much?
 
Originally posted by jcalz88:
Gay Straight Bi Transgender who gives a shit, why do we care what others do so much?
Agreed, whatever consenting adults do is their own business although I draw the line at the so-called Confused. You use the bathroom that your current genitalia are equipped use.
 
Ai, Gay couples can adopt children, therefore they can HAVE children.

SHubigT, obviously it was more of a point that gays can raise normal children just like a straight couple (and even "bad" children just like straight couples). The majority of parents that fail at raising a kid do so because they never planned to have one in the first place. Gays have to make a conscience decision to raise a kid as stated above. I think its in the very small minority of gay parents that chose to adopt before they were ready (pretty sure you have to qualify anyway). And as you stated, they are not exempt from being bad parents, probably because they are human.

SPK youre right! Girls bathroom lines are way too long cant have that start to spill over into mine! But seriously I think that if youre born a male you have to compete in male sports. Having male genes but trying to play a girls sport is an unfair advantage... like that one track runner i forget his/her name.

Jcalz, im with you i could care less. Its not making my life any more miserable than it already is. cant wrap my head around why people think its such a big deal. Brainwash city.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Ai, Gay couples can adopt children, therefore they can HAVE children.

SHubigT, obviously it was more of a point that gays can raise normal children just like a straight couple (and even "bad" children just like straight couples). The majority of parents that fail at raising a kid do so because they never planned to have one in the first place. Gays have to make a conscience decision to raise a kid as stated above. I think its in the very small minority of gay parents that chose to adopt before they were ready (pretty sure you have to qualify anyway). And as you stated, they are not exempt from being bad parents, probably because they are human.

SPK youre right! Girls bathroom lines are way too long cant have that start to spill over into mine! But seriously I think that if youre born a male you have to compete in male sports. Having male genes but trying to play a girls sport is an unfair advantage... like that one track runner i forget his/her name.

Jcalz, im with you i could care less. Its not making my life any more miserable than it already is. cant wrap my head around why people think its such a big deal. Brainwash city.
Shuathelete: Ai, Gay couples can adopt children, therefore they can HAVE children.

Biologically same-sex couples cannot have children; legally they MAY have children.

Shuathelete: SHubigT, obviously it was more of a point that gays can raise normal children just like a straight couple (and even "bad" children just like straight couples). The majority of parents that fail at raising a kid do so because they never planned to have one in the first place. Gays have to make a conscience decision to raise a kid as stated above. I think its in the very small minority of gay parents that chose to adopt before they were ready (pretty sure you have to qualify anyway). And as you stated, they are not exempt from being bad parents, probably because they are human.

Never let the facts get in the way of a good theory.

The most scientific and thorough analysis on this topic was published by Dr. Mark Regnerus of the University of Texas at Austin in the July 2012 issue of Social Science Research, which ''reported that adult children of parents who had same-sex romantic relationships, including same-sex couples as parents, have more emotional and social problems than do adult children of heterosexual parents with intact marriages''. These ''problems'' included statistically significant negative deviations among grown-children of same-sex parents with regard to;
- requiring public assistance,
- not voting,
- being drawn to suicide,
- STD,
- forced-sex,
- depression,
- education attainment,
- safety/security,
- attachment disorders,
- physical health,
- household income, and
- romance.
Statistics on being forced to have sex were as high as four times higher compared to intact biological families (IBF).


Shuathelete: SPK youre right! Girls bathroom lines are way too long cant have that start to spill over into mine! But seriously I think that if youre born a male you have to compete in male sports. Having male genes but trying to play a girls sport is an unfair advantage... like that one track runner i forget his/her name.

Rene' Richards was born a man, was ranked sixth out of the top twenty males over thirty-five, had a sex change, sued and won the right to compete as a woman, became the 20th ranked 'woman' overall, lost in the US Open Women's Doubles final in 1976 and won the US Open Women over 35 title.


Shuathelete: Jcalz, im with you i could care less. Its not making my life any more miserable than it already is. cant wrap my head around why people think its such a big deal. Brainwash city.

Big deal? I have not condemned anyone for his/her sexual habits --- although I do consider such actions sinful. I have voiced no opinion on anyone's legal right to have sex with any willing adult mammal. What I do make a ''big deal'' about is the government trying to redefine 'marriage'. Which is a whole different thread. LOL

I understood this thread to be about posters' personal reactions to a specific public display of affection on television.

Mark Regnerus
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:


Never let the facts get in the way of a good theory.

The most scientific and thorough analysis on this topic was published by Dr. Mark Regnerus of the University of Texas at Austin in the July 2012 issue of Social Science Research, which ''reported that adult children of parents who had same-sex romantic relationships, including same-sex couples as parents, have more emotional and social problems than do adult children of heterosexual parents with intact marriages''. These ''problems'' included statistically significant negative deviations among grown-children of same-sex parents with regard to;
- requiring public assistance,
- not voting,
- being drawn to suicide,
- STD,
- forced-sex,
- depression,
- education attainment,
- safety/security,
- attachment disorders,
- physical health,
- household income, and
- romance.
Statistics on being forced to have sex were as high as four times higher compared to intact biological families (IBF).
"Another category comprised those who said that one of their parents had a same-sex relationship before the respondents were 18. The group was very small?175 said their mothers had been involved in a same-sex relationship, 73 said their fathers had. "

Asking someone if their parents had a same sex relationship before they were 18 is A LOT different than asking of they were raised by a gay couple. Sorry, that study appears to be garbage.

Out of a sample of 18,000 people they were able to narrow it to 248 people who's parent had a gay relationship at some point, though we do not know if they were raised by a gay couple.

We really just don't have enough data available at this point to suggest any of the conclusions Regnerus is reaching towards. He used a set of the population born between 1972 and 1992, an era where being gay was really not accepted. We are just entering an era where it will be common to see a child raised by a same sex couple. In 20-30 years we will be able to get a much better snapshot of the data.
 
Originally posted by Merge:

Originally posted by Old_alum:


Never let the facts get in the way of a good theory.

The most scientific and thorough analysis on this topic was published by Dr. Mark Regnerus of the University of Texas at Austin in the July 2012 issue of Social Science Research, which ''reported that adult children of parents who had same-sex romantic relationships, including same-sex couples as parents, have more emotional and social problems than do adult children of heterosexual parents with intact marriages''. These ''problems'' included statistically significant negative deviations among grown-children of same-sex parents with regard to;
- requiring public assistance,
- not voting,
- being drawn to suicide,
- STD,
- forced-sex,
- depression,
- education attainment,
- safety/security,
- attachment disorders,
- physical health,
- household income, and
- romance.
Statistics on being forced to have sex were as high as four times higher compared to intact biological families (IBF).
"Another category comprised those who said that one of their parents had a same-sex relationship before the respondents were 18. The group was very small?175 said their mothers had been involved in a same-sex relationship, 73 said their fathers had. "

Asking someone if their parents had a same sex relationship before they were 18 is A LOT different than asking of they were raised by a gay couple. Sorry, that study appears to be garbage.

Out of a sample of 18,000 people they were able to narrow it to 248 people who's parent had a gay relationship at some point, though we do not know if they were raised by a gay couple.

We really just don't have enough data available at this point to suggest any of the conclusions Regnerus is reaching towards. He used a set of the population born between 1972 and 1992, an era where being gay was really not accepted. We are just entering an era where it will be common to see a child raised by a same sex couple. In 20-30 years we will be able to get a much better snapshot of the data.
Exactly. And im sure if most if not all of these so called problems are effected by the ridicule of society as it being a bad thing, not so much the actual parenting.

One of the first new kids i met in middle school told me he had 2 moms. I never heard of it before and still dont know anyone similar. I never thought anything of it, in fact i thought he was cool because he was a good drawer. I know he got made fun of by some of the other students for having 2 moms. He spent everyday being the only kid with gay parents and being treated like he was different even though he was just like everyone else. You dont think all of the shit he went through, and others who are similar go through, has something to do with the development process? Its not the parents fault for loving each other, its society's fault for thinking its wrong and creating an environment where we treat people as outcasts.
 
Originally posted by Merge:

Asking someone if their parents had a same sex relationship before they were 18 is A LOT different than asking of they were raised by a gay couple. Sorry, that study appears to be garbage.

Out of a sample of 18,000 people they were able to narrow it to 248 people who's parent had a gay relationship at some point, though we do not know if they were raised by a gay couple.

We really just don't have enough data available at this point to suggest any of the conclusions Regnerus is reaching towards. He used a set of the population born between 1972 and 1992, an era where being gay was really not accepted. We are just entering an era where it will be common to see a child raised by a same sex couple. In 20-30 years we will be able to get a much better snapshot of the data.
As Mark Twain said, there are liars, damned liars, and statisticians!

If a study is not random, then it is not representative. That said, the science of statistics and sampling, while -- like all science --- not perfect, is the 'best' science can do when the rules are followed.

As Seton75 suggested --- and I concurred --- in the other 'marriage' thread, people almost always have some sort of an agenda. If one actually reads the Regnerus study linked above, it should be patently clear that Regnerus has no identifiable agenda and that he far exceeded all of the previous 'scientific' studies on this topic in terms of breadth and randomness.

In isolation some sample numbers can seem very small. But have you ever seen the limited sample size of the highly reliable Presidential Election exit polling? Their 'universally accepted' (or at least TV Network accepted) conclusions are based on much smaller samples.

In the discipline of statistics the size of samples is scrutinized and almost always necessitate "error" controls via multiple 'statistics' (e.g. degrees of freedom, deviations, Type I and Type II errors). That's why Presidential polls are almost always quoted with ranges. It is only when randomly sampled results have deviations which are beyond the accountability of these control statistics that the results are categorized as ''significant''. All of the categories I listed above were deemed to be ''statistically significant''.

Almost nothing in this world is perfect. But modern science does set the bar high in the scrutinized discipline of statistical sampling. Many lay people and columnists can cherry-pick numbers out-of-context from the study and then try to draw unscientific intuitive conclusions of the validity, but these are not scientifically based opinions. That said, I am aware of no scientist or statistician who has challenged the methodology, the sample size or the analysis, but I have not read more than a few pages from the Google search lists.

IMHO it is 'unscientific', personally biased, and strictly subjective to characterize a validated study with arbitrary and insulting adjectives such as 'garbage'.

Someday, if the tide of relativism continues to flow, there might be larger populations of what Merge posted as 'same-sex couples' to sample. And we might get a more variegated 'snapshot', but that does not mean it will be ---as Merge posted---'better', nor that the conclusions will be any more 'normal'. Personally, I will always try to base my opinions on the best science available---now or in future.

Linked is Regnerus answers to some of his vicious critics as published in the Dallas News.



This post was edited on 6/12 12:53 PM by Old_alum

Regnerus Defends his study
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:

Exactly. And im sure if most if not all of these so called problems are effected by the ridicule of society as it being a bad thing, not so much the actual parenting.
Well, I guess some of us have a lower threshold of 'surety' than others.

To my knowledge, no one has suggested that there are not other social characteristics which have an 'effect', but I think that is the whole purpose of disciplined statistical analysis, i.e. to identify when the deviation is notably significant. Statistics, per se, addresses correlation, not necessarily causality. That said, almost ALL of the 'analysis' on the basketball board results in conclusions based overwhelmingly on statistics.


Originally posted by Shuathelete:

One of the first new kids i met in middle school told me he had 2 moms. I never heard of it before and still dont know anyone similar. I never thought anything of it, in fact i thought he was cool because he was a good drawer. I know he got made fun of by some of the other students for having 2 moms. He spent everyday being the only kid with gay parents and being treated like he was different even though he was just like everyone else. You dont think all of the shit he went through, and others who are similar go through, has something to do with the development process? Its not the parents fault for loving each other, its society's fault for thinking its wrong and creating an environment where we treat people as outcasts.
I am sorry that any human is ever ''made fun of''. Deplorable!

Society's treatment of any person for any of a myriad of reasons probably does affect that person's development and future actions. That said, statistics can tell us that when specific criteria are true, then the 'results' are either desirable or not, for either the person and for society as a whole.
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:


In the discipline of statistics the size of samples is scrutinized and almost always necessitate "error" controls via multiple 'statistics' (e.g. degrees of freedom, deviations, Type I and Type II errors). That's why Presidential polls are almost always quoted with ranges. It is only when randomly sampled results have deviations which are beyond the accountability of these control statistics that the results are categorized as ''significant''. All of the categories I listed above were deemed to be ''statistically significant''.


This post was edited on 6/12 12:53 PM by Old_alum
I have a decent understanding of statistics. What I am saying is that his sample was not a valid sample of the population if you are defining the population as children raised by gay parents. Remember he is talking about children born between 72 and 92. The early 70's was a "free love" sexual and drug experimentation era. There were many people who had a same sex experience who went own to get married in a straight relationship.

You just can not draw any conclusion about being raised by gay parents because that is not what the survey participants were asked.

It is like if I sampled a population asking them if there parents had ever eaten a salad, and forming my conclusions about children raised by vegetarians.
 
Originally posted by Merge:


Originally posted by Old_alum:


In the discipline of statistics the size of samples is scrutinized and almost always necessitate "error" controls via multiple 'statistics' (e.g. degrees of freedom, deviations, Type I and Type II errors). That's why Presidential polls are almost always quoted with ranges. It is only when randomly sampled results have deviations which are beyond the accountability of these control statistics that the results are categorized as ''significant''. All of the categories I listed above were deemed to be ''statistically significant''.



This post was edited on 6/12 12:53 PM by Old_alum
I have a decent understanding of statistics. What I am saying is that his sample was not a valid sample of the population if you are defining the population as children raised by gay parents. Remember he is talking about children born between 72 and 92. The early 70's was a "free love" sexual and drug experimentation era. There were many people who had a same sex experience who went own to get married in a straight relationship.

You just can not draw any conclusion about being raised by gay parents because that is not what the survey participants were asked.

It is like if I sampled a population asking them if there parents had ever eaten a salad, and forming my conclusions about children raised by vegetarians.
Three points.

1. The question about a respondent's parent having at some point had a same-sex tryst was one question among many. In addition to the questions, the study also solicited background data. If you read the study --- or at least the Dallas News response linked --- it should be clearer that while some of the respondents were not ''raised'' by same-sex 'parents', the distribution did include respondents who spent all of the first 18 years of their lives living with two same-sex 'parents', as well as some who spent 5 or 10 or 15 years in such a household. The statistical methods account for the reliability of less populous subsegments. Is the survey a pure indictment of all same sex couples' child rearing? No. Does it indicate that on 'average' the grown children raised by such couples have significantly more and varied problems than those raised by their biological parents? Yes, it does.

2. No population is monolithic. All are variegated. Do African Americans run faster than European Americans? Look at the schoolboy track records and you will see that based on recorded times, they run significantly faster. Those records will indicate that Floridians run faster than Dakotans, as well. Does that mean that no Euro-American can run as fast as an African American? No! Does that mean that no Dakotan can run as fast as a Floridian? No! Statistics are the most scientifically consistent and verifiable way of comparing populations. Are samples of populations always representative of the entire population? No! But if statistically disciplined they represent their populations more than 99% of the time.

3. Studies of same-sex 'parents' are not the only relevant studies. There is a long list of studies that evidence that every child benefits from having both a father and a mother on whom to pattern their behavior and their attitudes. Single parents biologically just cannot provide the two required models for normal development. Having two 'parents' of the same sex does not solve this problem, no matter how kind, loving, educated, and sensitive they might be.

The reason I added this study as background for this thread was that a theory was earlier presented which said that the only reason parents fail at child raising is ''because they never planned to have one in the first place''. I am aware of no statistical or anecdotal studies by researchers or physicians which would substantiate that.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Old_alum must be tough living in this New_world
It has never been easy for Christians to live in this world. Period. That said, the challenges of what you call the 'New_world' are the same in essence, just more varied in the forms of selfishness.

At least no one is proposing to throw us to the lions---yet! LOL
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:
Three points.

1. The question about a respondent's parent having at some point had a same-sex tryst was one question among many. In addition to the questions, the study also solicited background data. If you read the study --- or at least the Dallas News response linked --- it should be clearer that while some of the respondents were not ''raised'' by same-sex 'parents', the distribution did include respondents who spent all of the first 18 years of their lives living with two same-sex 'parents', as well as some who spent 5 or 10 or 15 years in such a household. The statistical methods account for the reliability of less populous subsegments. Is the survey a pure indictment of all same sex couples' child rearing? No. Does it indicate that on 'average' the grown children raised by such couples have significantly more and varied problems than those raised by their biological parents? Yes, it does.

2. No population is monolithic. All are variegated. Do African Americans run faster than European Americans? Look at the schoolboy track records and you will see that based on recorded times, they run significantly faster. Those records will indicate that Floridians run faster than Dakotans, as well. Does that mean that no Euro-American can run as fast as an African American? No! Does that mean that no Dakotan can run as fast as a Floridian? No! Statistics are the most scientifically consistent and verifiable way of comparing populations. Are samples of populations always representative of the entire population? No! But if statistically disciplined they represent their populations more than 99% of the time.

3. Studies of same-sex 'parents' are not the only relevant studies. There is a long list of studies that evidence that every child benefits from having both a father and a mother on whom to pattern their behavior and their attitudes. Single parents biologically just cannot provide the two required models for normal development. Having two 'parents' of the same sex does not solve this problem, no matter how kind, loving, educated, and sensitive they might be.

The reason I added this study as background for this thread was that a theory was earlier presented which said that the only reason parents fail at child raising is ''because they never planned to have one in the first place''. I am aware of no statistical or anecdotal studies by researchers or physicians which would substantiate that.
1. I read his study. Of the people 18,000 people he questioned. 73 said their father had a same sex relationship at some point. Less than 2% (2% * 73 = 1.46...) so 1 person said they lived with their father and his partner for more than 3 years. Slightly higher for women at 26% of 175. My point is that he doesn't seek to define the population he is testing. A gay experience does not equate to being gay.

In his own response to the critics he says "We preferred to assess the simple awareness of a more objective marker ? a parent's romantic relationship with someone of the same sex."

2. Exactly. My argument is that his study is not statistically disciplined. There are too many flaws with his methods.

3. There is no long list of studies of children raised by a gay couple. It is just too new in our culture and any study will be severely flawed. This is really going to take another 20-30 years before there is a set of data worth looking at.
 
Originally posted by Merge:


1. I read his study. Of the people 18,000 people he questioned. 73 said their father had a same sex relationship at some point. Less than 2% (2% * 73 = 1.46...) so 1 person said they lived with their father and his partner for more than 3 years. Slightly higher for women at 26% of 175 (ed: 44). My point is that he doesn't seek to define the population he is testing. A gay experience does not equate to being gay.

In his own response to the critics he says "We preferred to assess the simple awareness of a more objective marker ? a parent's romantic relationship with someone of the same sex."
So 45 respondents met that criteria. I understand that as a layman you do not feel that it is broad enough. He and his peer-reviewers apparently do. This was a random survey and much broader than all previous studies, statistically valid to the pros.

He tried to use ''objective marker(s)'', i.e. those not subject to personal subjectivity, e.g. is your father Gay? This is a proper goal.



Originally posted by Merge:
2. Exactly. My argument is that his study is not statistically disciplined. There are too many flaws with his methods.
Name one flaw with his 'methods'. Cite one professional scientist or mathematician who agrees with you.


Originally posted by Merge:
3. There is no long list of studies of children raised by a gay couple. It is just too new in our culture and any study will be severely flawed. This is really going to take another 20-30 years before there is a set of data worth looking at.
As I tried to explain the 'long list' of studies were of single parents and the regular categorization of the consistent deviations was the need for both a male parent and a female parent. Having two males or two females does not cure that deficiency.

The study being discussed is the broadest and must scrutinized on a topic afflicting a small percentage of the population. It met all the scientific criteria and tests. You, personally, as an SHU grad with a business or liberal arts major might dismiss it, but the results were 'statistically significant' under peer-review.
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:
Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Old_alum must be tough living in this New_world
It has never been easy for Christians to live in this world. Period. That said, the challenges of what you call the 'New_world' are the same in essence, just more varied in the forms of selfishness.

At least no one is proposing to throw us to the lions---yet! LOL
No one is proposing to throw you to the lions, just be more accepting. By the sounds of it im not sure which is worse for you.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:


Originally posted by Old_alum:

Originally posted by Shuathelete:
Old_alum must be tough living in this New_world
It has never been easy for Christians to live in this world. Period. That said, the challenges of what you call the 'New_world' are the same in essence, just more varied in the forms of selfishness.

At least no one is proposing to throw us to the lions---yet! LOL
No one is proposing to throw you to the lions, just be more accepting. By the sounds of it im not sure which is worse for you.
When you say ''accepting'', you mean ''accepting'' of what?


What do you mean by ''sounds of it''?
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:
Name one flaw with his 'methods'. Cite one professional scientist or mathematician who agrees with you.


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-sexual-continuum/201207/scientists-rebuke-publication-study-lgbt-parenting
 
Originally posted by Merge:

Originally posted by Old_alum:

Name one flaw with his 'methods'. Cite one professional scientist or mathematician who agrees with you.


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-sexual-continuum/201207/scientists-rebuke-publication-study-lgbt-parenting
What a surprise! The LGBT community rallied to attack negative statistics! But did you read the ''criticisms'' this site addressed. Their attacks were purely circumstantial and their final statement (#6 below) says it all. I counted these six complaints:

1. Five weeks of review (actually five weeks and six days, but why quibble) was shorter than the "typical" or the "median" time taken on other submissions. Based solely on the ''appearances'' to these complainers (i.e. no facts) this seems too short.

Old_Alum: The time that a particular group of "certainly well-respected scholars" takes to do a specific review is uncorrelated to the time that other scholars have taken to review other studies. Wow! Perhaps these reviewers had no other distractions. Perhaps the methods and conclusions were patently clear. This is like saying a basketball player who averaged a triple double for two years against strong competition cannot be good because he did not play as a sophomore. LOL

2. The Peer review was provided by "certainly well-respected scholars", but one of them was paid as a consultant in the design of the study.

Old_Alum: This tries to indict the integrity of these "certainly well-respected scholars", but it does not change the study's statistics.


3. The Peer review was provided by "certainly well-respected scholars" who have published, but "neither Osborne nor Amato have ever published work that considers LGBT[/B] family or parenting issues", so they were not the most qualified in the specialty.

Old_Alum: If this weak argument's premise were accepted then only a handful of scientists (the "most" qualified in any field) would have to do ALL peer reviews---then they would take decades to get done. The LGBT complainers, themselves, called the study's reviewers "certainly well-respected scholars". And these complainers don't understand grammar!

4. Due to small numbers in detailed subcategories the author only aggregated into larger categories.

Old_Alum: Have you never heard of aggregation? It is a standard practice. It does not change the premise. The complainers write that they are "unable to distinguish between the impact of having a parent who has had a continuous same-sex relationship from the impact of having same-sex parents who broke-up " . Well, they are both 'same sex' and that is the point. I suspect that this was one of the things which Regnerus might have addressed in his follow-up publication.

5. The questions were objective, not subjective.

Old_Alum: Now that is a new, counter-intuitive, and IMHO ridiculous complaint. Why would anyone seek subjectivity?

6. "Indeed, this is more a study of the children of parents who have had (and in some cases, are still in) same-sex relationships than it is one of children whose parents have self-identified or are ''out'' as gay or lesbian or bisexual."

Old_Alum: This sums it up. IMHO that is exactly how the author framed it. That is exactly how I framed it:



Originally posted by Old_alum:


Never let the facts get in the way of a good theory.

The most scientific and thorough analysis on this topic was published by Dr. Mark Regnerus of the University of Texas at Austin in the July 2012 issue of Social Science Research, which ''reported that adult children of parents who had same-sex romantic relationships, including same-sex couples as parents, have more emotional and social problems than do adult children of heterosexual parents with intact marriages''.
So, your experts agree with the statistics, they just want to distinguish between "children of parents who have had ...same-sex relationships" from "children whose parents have self-identified or are ''out'' as gay or lesbian or bisexual." Sounds to me like nit picking, not flawed statistics.
 
Originally posted by Shuathelete:

No one is proposing to throw you to the lions, just be more accepting.
He doesn't have to be more accepting, just shouldn't legislate. Live and let live works both ways. Should be legal for any 2 or more consenting adults to get married/civil unioned. Also legal for groups (churches, bakers, etc.) to decide on their own whether they will approve/sanction/participate in such arrangements.

The lack of tolerance by those that are preaching/asking for tolerance is truly sad and disgusting. Re-education training for a baker who wouldn't bake a cake for a gay wedding is truly sad and pathetic. Not letting people live in happiness when it doesn't affect you is equally as sad and pathetic. We should be ashamed of ourselves.
 
Originally posted by SPK145:

He doesn't have to be more accepting, just shouldn't legislate.
SPK, what exactly do you mean by me trying to ''legislate''?



Originally posted by SPK145:
Live and let live works both ways. Should be legal for any 2 or more consenting adults to get married/civil unioned. Also legal for groups (churches, bakers, etc.) to decide on their own whether they will approve/sanction/participate in such arrangements.

The lack of tolerance by those that are preaching/asking for tolerance is truly sad and disgusting. Re-education training for a baker who wouldn't bake a cake for a gay wedding is truly sad and pathetic. Not letting people live in happiness when it doesn't affect you is equally as sad and pathetic. We should be ashamed of ourselves.
Hear! Hear!
 
Originally posted by Old_alum:

What a surprise! The LGBT community rallied to attack negative statistics! But did you read the ''criticisms'' this site addressed.
That wasn't the LGBT community. That was a group of sociologists, psychologists and other scholars... aka... his peers.
See here for full list.

http://www.impactprogram.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Letter-to-the-editors-and-advisory-editors-of-Social-Science-Research.pdf

The letter points out my biggest criticism of the study...

"By doing this, the author is unable to distinguish between the impact of having a parent who has had a continuous same-sex relationship from the impact of having same-sex parents who broke-up from the impact of living in a same-sex stepfamily from the impact of living with a single parent who may have dated a same-sex partner"

He compared children of someone who has had a gay relationship to children of intact parents. He excluded divorced families in his control group which is absurd for statistical analysis of his marker.
 
Originally posted by Merge:

Originally posted by Old_alum:

What a surprise! The LGBT community rallied to attack negative statistics! But did you read the ''criticisms'' this site addressed.
That wasn't the LGBT community. That was a group of sociologists, psychologists and other scholars... aka... his peers.
See here for full list.
From a quick scan, only one or two of the listed experts seem to be working at the same university. Who aggregated this divergent list into a single letter-response? Was it as 'random' as some of the other more-positive studies?

Again, there was not a single complaint about the statistics themselves. The 'group's' only complaint about the 'analysis' was the 'subcategories'. But even the size of the subcategories of the random study were larger than the self-selected (non-random) studies done on this population earlier. You 'group' recognized the expertise of the peer-reviewers as "certainly well-respected scholars".



Originally posted by Merge:

The letter points out my biggest criticism of the study...

"By doing this, the author is unable to distinguish between the impact of having a parent who has had a continuous same-sex relationship from the impact of having same-sex parents who broke-up from the impact of living in a same-sex stepfamily from the impact of living with a single parent who may have dated a same-sex partner"






Merge, here they are speaking of the 'subcategories'. The author itemized each of the subcategories and added other statistics. He published all of them. The various same-sex stats were almost always significantly worse than the comparable heterosexual parent groups, with divorce, single-parent, step-families, etc.




Originally posted by Merge:

He compared children of someone who has had a gay relationship to children of intact parents. He excluded divorced families in his control group which is absurd for statistical analysis of his marker.
As I said above, in addition to the stats on the IBF (your control group), the stats on ALL of these other subgroups (e.g. divorced) were also published. They are there for comparison! The statistics themselves were never challenged by your experts.

Most important, no one (particularly me) characterized the study and the results as anything other than the way in which your experts wanted it to be characterized,

The bottom line is that the statistics --- unchallenged by your 'group' of experts --- are significantly worse for parents who had a same-sex relationship (as long as 18 years) than the comparable stats for relative subcategories (which themselves were larger than the previous self-selected studies), pretty much across the board. QED

Like all stats not perfect, but statistically significant.

This post was edited on 6/16 12:21 PM by Old_alum
 
Originally posted by SPK145:

Originally posted by Old_alum:





Originally posted by SPK145:


He doesn't have to be more accepting, just shouldn't legislate.




SPK, what exactly do you mean by me trying to ''legislate''?

Isn't your whole view not to allow gays to marry? If not, then I am mistaken and what the hell is this entire thread about, LOL???
If I am not mistaken this thread started as a discussion of posters personal reactions to the homosexual PDA on ESPN during the NFL draft.

There is another thread about a POLL on Gay 'marriage', and I am opposed to any change in the laws: marriage is and has always been defined as a union between one man and one woman. I suggested that the civil government may set any tax/insurance/pension/estate rules it wants to, but that while the definition of a word which has had only one meaning for 3,900 years should not be changed, the economic laws can be made without changing the sacred word and I thinks it is fairer for the civil government just to get out of the 'marriage' business altogether. So I am not proposing legislation, I am opposed to changing legislation. And all of my arguments were based on logic, biology, precedent and the greater good, not on Church rules, per se.

So I would make the case that I have not tried to "legislate" anything at all. I just tried argued against unfair legislative changes. So legislation like beauty must be in the eye of the beholder. LOL
 
Originally posted by SPK145:
Originally posted by Old_alum:


Originally posted by SPK145:

He doesn't have to be more accepting, just shouldn't legislate.


SPK, what exactly do you mean by me trying to ''legislate''?
Isn't your whole view not to allow gays to marry? If not, then I am mistaken and what the hell is this entire thread about, LOL???
I don't think he, or you and I are far apart. Legislate common sense: leave sacramental "marriage" for those who want it, and "civil unions" for those who don't. It's not perfect, but it's a hell of a lot more sensible than this back and forth we've been forced to witness, and weigh in on, for several years now.

The state shouldn't "marry" anyone, and the reverends/minister/priests/rabbis/imams shouldn't provide civil unions.
 
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