OK here goes. In 1994 , my elderly parents -Dad was 79, drove into Manhattan from Aberdeen to see a Wednesday Broadway matinee,
Parked at Port Authority. While walking on the street to the theatre, they were surrounded by a group of black boys. Dad was shoved to the ground as my mother watched in horror. They took his wallet snd watch and ran off. He was badly shaken and was given money for the parking garage by a young cop who came on the scene..
My dad, a strong man -immigrants son, depression, just 2 years of high school-to work to help the family-WWII Navy-union
shop steward was crying when I went to see him that night. He kept asking, “ Why did they do this?
They did it because those boys were not taught right from wrong. And I bet had no father presence to instill that ideal.
That was 26 years ago but the latest statistic shows that 75% of black babies are born out of wedlock. Without a father presence.
This is the primary cause of black poverty, crime infested neighborhoods like Chicago Southside - and getting leapfrogged by the newly arrived Asians ,Hispanics and people from India and Pakistan. They are not caucasian and many don't speak English when they get here. But because of nuclear families they have gotten on the Great American Dream Train. But few people want to acknowledge any of this.
Improving police tactics, taking a knee, giving preferential treatment in schools, subsidizing food and shelter are band aid tactics that don’t get to the core problem. And looting and burning businesses or stealing from a 7/11 doesn’t get sympathy from fair minded people like me.
Obama could have brought attention to Building Black Families or Black Families Matter but instead he resorted to the wimpy “ Trayvon could have been my son” and Black Lives Matter approaches.
Well so could those 5 kids who beat up my father.
But I didn’t march in protest, loot stores or burn down buildings in anger.
Cause Dad would not have wanted that.
And to get back on topic, he also would have disowned me if I ever disrespected the flag.
No disrespect but why should a black american, whose ancestors were forcibly taken from their own country only for generations to live below the poverty line, be proud of the flag? I am not white, neither am I black. I’m proud to be here and I respect the flag. But it’s hard to put yourself in the shoes of a minority.