Some people here seem mystified by the decline in popularity of Catholicism.
Let me take a crack at this.
-Perhaps it's the fact that so many priests have sexually abused boys.
-Perhaps it's the fact that church leaders knew it was happening and covered it up, leading to continued criminal behavior by PRIESTS!
No argument that these things are horrific, but you can't discount the cultural shift; I know parents who stopped going to Mass because it interfered with their childrens' sports schedules. A failure on human grounds doesn't invalidate the theology. Many of us have only had positive experiences with the clergy.
-With the high rate of divorce, you cannot get married in the church (unless you're rich and a coke-snorting celebrity, in which case you can get married at any cathedral and you'll be welcomed with open arms.) This leads to many people starting a new life away from the church. It costs a lot of money for a divorcee to get in the good graces of the church. So they rent a hall instead.
OK, that's a little silly. I had to write a letter, to the Diocese, for a friend who got an annulment a few years back. The process is definitely some hoops, but those who are motivated will jump through them. Others, well, they could always rent a hall (probably even the KOC), and would probably leave the Church anyway.
-Ask any of your children and grandchildren if they've been to a wedding in the last five years. How many actually had a ceremony inside a church? Why are young couples opting for a beautiful park near a stream rather than a church?
All but one of the weddings I've been to, in the last five years, including my own, have been in one church or another. The other was a non-religious bride, and a Catholic (in name only) groom. If the groom had the desire, or the upbringing, I'm sure the bride would have married him in the Church. They had a Star Wars theme. True enlightenment.
-How about the direct role the Catholic church is playing in encouraging and assisting illegal immigration?
Please elaborate. Those who are pro-capital punishment would disagree about the Church's role there, too.
-How about the fact that the pope seems more like a leftist/socialist politician than a man of God?
He's a Jesuit! Now YOU sound political!
-I was in a hospital room two months ago when someone passed away. The young Filipino priest who was called was obviously annoyed when he arrived because the person had passed away before he got there. That's not what he was expecting. Afterwards he actually said," Next time please call before the person has passed."
I wanted to tell him to go F himself.
Imagine, him wanting to administer last rites while the person was alive!
-I won't even go into the ugly history of mass murder and torture in the name of the Pope.
So people are leaving the Church now, because of atrocities in the Dark Ages? Wow; if they were such history buffs, they would know that the Crusades have been grossly overstated by the anti-religious, of late.
There's an expression called death by a thousand cuts. Millions of Catholics have left the church because of a thousand cuts.
I've seen that; again, I'm wagering that more falling away is general laziness and materialism. The Crusades are a good excuse, though!
Nevertheless, I'm Catholic. I truly love Jesus. However, years ago I lost faith in the institution and the hierarchy.
I don't even feel comfortable in church anymore. I feel like I'm listening to a political sermon, especially if the priest is from Asia or South America. There's a political statement every time I go. I really don't want to listen.
I sincerely hope the hierarchy does straighten things out. This Pope you have such distaste for seems to be moving in the right direction on the abuse scandal. Sorry you feel that way about the homilies you listen to -- really political, or dogma as it relates to the world we live in?
Finally, anybody who says I'm not being factual has no clue what's going on.
I guess that's the end of discussion, then!