Regarding loyalty and what a player owes a program and what he does not:
I have always said I am all for a player maximizing his payout in what for most is a very limited earning window. Most of these guys aren't going to be pros, let alone play in the NBA, so if their next move after college is to get a "real job," there are very few cases where they are going to earn this much in a year any time soon, if ever. SO I say go get it. It's legal, and they'd be foolish to let the opportunity pass by. The game has used them for generations, so it's only fair they get to use the game now, too. It's not great for us fans, but it's also not really about us.
That isn't to say, however, that we don't matter at all. We are, after all the ones who ultimately make the sport as profitable as it is, so there are times when we have to factor into the equation. Because we are still so stepped in "the old way of doing things," it hurts to see a kid like Kadary go. It feels like a betrayal, but it really isn't. It's just a kid trying to make the most of his earning window. I think a lot of us do that in our careers, too, no? So when I step outside my fanhood, I understand him leaving.
But if you leave on good terms, there are also some things you ought not to smush back in the faces of your coach, your old teammates, or the fans who supported you. I don't like the idea of transferring within the conference, especially to a local. Kadary going to St. John's would be a slap in the face to us, mostly because it's not necessary. Her could get that money from plenty of other (and better) programs. The same would apply to him going to Rutgers, though that seems very unlikely. In both cases, it would erase so much of the good will he's built up. I feel that way and I'm one of the more pro-player-rights people there are.
I think that intra-conference movement is mitigated somewhat when the former program greases the skids for you to go. Dylan Addae-Wusu is a good example; Quick Rick didn't care to kep him, so to me, that's fair enough. The two situations are not equal.