I have doctor friends, including one in NJ who was on the front/front lines of this at the beginning because she is an anesthesiologist intubating patients. They are under 50 by a good margin. They elected to get the vaccine because their jobs basically wanted them to and unlike certain professions, they can't just say "no" and act like a petulant child while still getting paid in full the entire time for fake-learning environments. If their jobs didn't require it, they probably would have anyway because of their profession and being around COVID all the time in a very real way (i.e., intubating patients stricken with the virus).
They also told me exactly what you say here. They encouraged our parents to get it, because of their age. They encouraged some of our younger friends who have pre-existing conditions to get it. And they told me, my wife, and many others of us under 50 that we probably shouldn't get it unless we have a burning desire to do so, nor do our young kids need to get it. And that they wouldn't get it if they were in our shoes.